September 28, 2026
Happy Fall Reader,
We’re back!
After a six-month hiatus, The Alcohol Free Marriage & More Podcast is back, and we’re so excited to be sitting down together again and having these conversations with you. Watch here or Click here to listen.
Since it’s been a while, we start with a little life update and catch you up on what’s been happening with us over the past six months. And, of course, we couldn’t come back without sharing our NA Drinks of the Week!
Then we dive into a topic that we know keeps so many people stuck with alcohol and one that kept both of us stuck for years too: the myth of moderation. (I know I wrote about this last week and now we are talking about it.)
You know the cycle. You decide you’re only going to drink on the weekends, only have one or two, only drink when you go out, or maybe take another 30-day break and then try moderation again.
But somehow, alcohol is still taking up so much space in your head.
So we explore a different question:
What if you’re not failing at moderation? What if this is what moderation actually looks like for you?
We talk about how trying to control alcohol can actually create more fixation, why it’s so important to understand what alcohol is really doing for you, and how your nervous system may be playing a bigger role than willpower.
And because faith is such an important part of alcohol freedom for us, we also explore the difference between asking God to help us control something and being willing to ask Him to help us surrender it.
Maybe the goal isn’t to get better at controlling our drinking. Maybe it’s time to ask a different question:
“Why am I putting so much energy into trying to control something that I’m not even sure I want in my life anymore?”
If you’re tired of making rules, breaking rules, starting over, and wondering why you just can’t figure this moderation thing out, this episode is for you.
We hope this conversation encourages you to get curious about your own relationship with alcohol, step out of the constant negotiation, and discover what real alcohol freedom could look like for you.
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Peace & Joy,
"No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." - 1 Corinthians 10:15
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